It's happened to all of us. We're on a diet, motivated and breezing through the day eating right, busy living life, and then nighttime falls, and strange mental and physical pangs threaten to undo all the progress we've made during the day.
I have
lots of pretty decent theories about why this happens and what I do to get around it (or at least understand it). I'll be covering it over four posts.
Late-night Snack Hack #1:Be social, even if it's only in your mind.The first "hack" or strategy to fight nighttime snacking is based on an observation I made about myself:
When I'm out with friends/at an event/a catered meeting/gathering, I eat less, and just find food less interesting than when I'm by myself. Now the armchair psychologist would say that that's because I'm self-conscious about eating in front of people. They'd be wrong, at least with me. I actually love talking about food with people and trying stuff with them, just like it's a new song. I got no issues with food + people, and think many others fall into this category.
I eat less around other people because my mind is totally busy and stimulated by stuff other than food. I'm not fixating on looking forward to the "what's for dinner" question, or disapointed when "Dinner's already over, now what?!?" when there's so much other stuff to think about.
The hard part of this is, when dieting, it's
way easier for me NOT to go out, because I have more control of food at home. So when I suggest that you be social at night, I don't necessarily mean go out to eat with others. What I do is plan phone calls with friends who are on the hyper-ambitious side. For some reason getting fired up about career stuff, or creative projects, or anything even slightly ambitious gets me physically anxious and anti-hungry (and in a good mood.).
Your triggers and enthusiams may vary, so season to taste. Plan a phone call, meet somebody for tea, talk on IM, or just sit down by yourself and write a letter/email. Read others' emails/blogs
in a non ADD compulsive way (daytime communication can be frantic and half-hearted, this nighttime stuff is different.) Sit back, enjoy the moment, concentrate, and connect!
The idea is to stimulate your brain with socializing so that the only reason you're thinking of food isn't compulsion or passive stimulation, but just real hunger.
Feed your brain with people, and you won't want to feed your mouth.*